Bitch, Bitchy, Bitch like, being a bitch.......

I complain a lot, I am not always just in my complaints. I do however feel just today. I feel that I have been hit with this topic. A comment that cannot be taken back. The bell cannot be un-rung.

BITCH is the most degrading thing in MY opinion that a man can call a woman. Others may not agree, it is a cardinal rule broken when called to woman by a man regardless of his anger or why he said it. (I like the answer that If the woman had done...A, B, or C he wouldn't of had too)

Oh or that he doesn't understand what the big deal is. Its a big fucking deal when a man cannot understand the big deal.
A man should never call a woman a bitch in the presence of children. Just my opinion. You all know when I get passionate about things I get on my soap box. (Today its Tide with febreze).

I am a very independent woman and hold myself to many high standards that I also hold others to. It bothers me that men today have lost a piece of the chivalry they used to have. When did being a man to a woman go away....?

I hear of these things and maybe have been witness to them myself. Regardless of my way of stumbling on this topic, I will speak out of both sides of my mouth. I think women should be independent and hold their ground in society. However I think old fashioned in the way men and woman should be when in a relationship or marriage (yes that came from ME). Car door open, kiss on the cheek, hold the door open. Tell her she looks beautiful. Shelter her like the woman she is. But that is what I think. I think simple shows of affection have gotten lost along the way.

My heart smiles when I see a older couple holding hands. They still have what never left them.

Think about it, the next time you are with your gal or guy tell them they are handsome, or pretty. Grab their hand and give it a kiss "for no reason". Embrace what you have. It is special and if you take care of it, will stay that way. Oh and to the gals, wear more leave a little to the imagination. I like that about Walter, he is a man that thinks a dress is too short or inappropriate because its too revealing. (many men would have their tongues hanging out showing off that trophy!!)

Never call a woman a BITCH. Just don't. Its wrong, it will hurt.
Never call a man a ASSHOLE to his face. Its a two way street.